Wow, 2013 has arrived, and many of us are thrilled it is here. That certainly does not suggest that 2012 was unpleasant; it unquestionably had delightful times. Nonetheless, like its predecessors, it seemed to have uncertainty woven about in spots.
How can we better prepare the present year to be a landscape for happiness? Here are a few suggestions.
- Live your convictions. When we wear the principles we hold dear, we become an amazing example to others. Some people repeatedly talk about what they believe, but not everyone enjoys listening. To paraphrase a popular quote, “Demonstrate the values important to you; and, when necessary, use words.”
- Never fail to realize you are teaching. Most of us do not have teaching degrees, but that does not mean we are not teachers. We impart lessons every day by what we do, what we say, and how we say it. For example, when we smile generously or regularly act in a kindly manner, we give other individuals a jolt of cheer. Consciously (or unconsciously), the people we touch in the classroom of life often use the lesson to uplift others. Think of it as a good type of infection.
- Lighten up. Yes, life can be serious, and there are undoubtedly occasions our demeanor should reflect the situation. Even so, many of us miss opportunities to be lighthearted because we settle into a somber pattern. And, the longer we exhibit this type of manner, the more difficult it becomes to change. So, chuckle at nothing, tell harmless jokes, rejoice in the moment, add humor to tension, and celebrate in your head. Remarkably, even stress will seem lighter.
- Begin. Numerous men and women put off desired ambitions for a rainy day. Yet, even when the rains fall, the goals remain on hold. Therefore, commit to begin, and do not allow fear to hinder the way. Yes, there might be individuals who are smarter or possess a greater degree of talent, but that should never be a deterrent. After all, you may have a unique spin on the undertaking that is independent to you. And, remember, the audience you attract may not be the one you hoped would take notice, but it will likely be the one who can benefit from your efforts.
A New Year is upon us, and there are so many good times to create. So, let’s make 2013 a period that will live pleasurably in our hearts.
